mama

The night before Kurt and I were married we had a family dinner where people gave us some "advise". My father-in-law said we were to take good things from each of our families to make our new family Great! As mothers day approached, I couldnt help but think of ways I could improve in being a mother and wife. My own Mother and Mother-in-law are great examples to me and I can take a lot of good things from them to help me and my family be great.
My mom is a peacemaker- it has been said a lot of times, but it is true. She is always the one to work out a spat between siblings or settle a fight. My mother also taught me how to be a good "house wife" if you may, something she got from her own Mother I think. I can always remember her working non stop to keep the house clean and have dinner and treats ready when we got home. She taught me how to appreciate what we have and make do. We were not rich growing up and many time we "did without". But I never remember my Mother complaining or even more profound, I dont remember her ever buying things for herself. We were and are her main concern and she put our needs above hers no matter what it was. She taught me to treat others the way I want to be treated. If someone is left out or doesnt fit in we can reach out a hand and befriend these people. I know how it feels to not fit in, and in those times I would have LOVED someone to reach out a hand to me.


My Mother-in-law is a very kind and friendly woman. The first time I went to Church with them in St. Louis everyone wanted to sit by her and now I know why! I tend to keep to myself but I can learn a lot from this attribute of hers. She has taught me how to show my love for my family not only through actions but through words. Sometimes we forget that our loved ones may just need to hear an I love you. Its simple but powerful. She has taught me not to judge others on their past. I have a tattoo- its true. I was so concerned for my in-laws to see it and think negativly about me that I asked Kurt to tell them before hand they met me so they wouldnt be shocked. But their response was so comforting. Not only did they not care, but they never judged me for it. My mother-in-law has taught me the meaning of a strong testimony and Living the Gospel to the fullest. This is something that if I follow her example, will help ensure that my children and their childrens children will continue to recieve the blessings promised to us when we live righteously.

I am not a perfect wife or mother but I strive to be great and by following the examples of these two amazing mothers in my life, I can and will succeed. I love you Mom Shelley and Mom Marita!